{"id":858,"date":"2024-05-14T17:00:34","date_gmt":"2024-05-14T17:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/?p=858"},"modified":"2024-05-15T19:39:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T19:39:02","slug":"icimdeki-lotus-cicegi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/?p=858","title":{"rendered":"\u0130\u00e7imdeki lotus \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cKimi mutlulu\u011fu yukar\u0131da arar, kimisi de a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da. Halbuki mutluluk, insanla ayn\u0131 hizadad\u0131r.\u201d -Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

– Bir \u00e7ay
\n– Hemen getiriyorum abi<\/p>\n

Kitab\u0131 bitirmenin hazz\u0131n\u0131 hep bu \u015fekilde kutlard\u0131. Eline bir \u00e7ay al\u0131r; kitab\u0131n kendine katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne varsa onunla bir \u00e7ay e\u015fli\u011finde; yazarken, \u00e7izerken, konu\u015furken, izlerken ho\u015f sohbet yapmay\u0131 severdi. Evvelden beri al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 buydu. Do\u011fan Hocas\u0131 gelirdi akl\u0131na, ne de olsa bir kitab\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131ndaki ile sonundaki ki\u015fi ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi de\u011fildi; o da b\u00f6yle inan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

– Buyurun, ba\u015fka bir arzunuz?
\n– Yok, te\u015fekk\u00fcrler.<\/p>\n

Kendisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerden kopart\u0131p gelen sese bakt\u0131, tan\u0131d\u0131k de\u011fildi. \u201cSen yenisin galiba\u201d i\u00e7 sesiyle ile \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131 eline ald\u0131. Malum ona art\u0131k ba\u015fka bir arzunuz var m\u0131 diye soran uzun zamand\u0131r olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. G\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine g\u00fcne\u015fi al\u0131\u015f\u0131na, o g\u00fcne\u015fi g\u00f6zlerine veri\u015fine bak\u0131l\u0131rsa \u00e7ay daha lezzetli olacakt\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u00c7evresindeki masalara bakt\u0131. Kimisi tela\u015fl\u0131, kimisi h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc, kimisi \u015fen kahkahalar\u0131 ile kahve yudumlamakta idi. Bir anekdot gelmi\u015f olsa gerek ki i\u00e7indeki g\u00fcne\u015fi saklarcas\u0131na g\u00f6zlerini k\u0131st\u0131. G\u00fcne\u015f, hepimize ayn\u0131 mesafedeydi; hepimize ayn\u0131 uzakl\u0131kta. Ama her insan g\u00fcne\u015fi ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde kar\u015f\u0131lam\u0131yordu. Mesel\u00e2, perdesini a\u00e7arsa odas\u0131na giriyordu, yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u0131s\u0131t\u0131yordu. G\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7an\u0131n g\u00f6z bebe\u011fine de\u011fiyordu. \u0130kinci yudumunu al\u0131rken g\u00f6\u011fe bakt\u0131, g\u00fcne\u015fe g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi, biraz daha i\u00e7ine ald\u0131. Nasibin idrakini bir kez daha ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u201cY\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6nm\u00fcyorsan a can\u0131m, \u00e7i\u00e7ekler sana kokmaz\u201d deyi\u015fini hat\u0131rlad\u0131 Kemal Sayar\u2019\u0131n. Bu sefer kalemi ve defteri i\u00e7in \u00e7antas\u0131n\u0131 yoklad\u0131. Masan\u0131n \u00fczerine \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi h\u0131zl\u0131ca \u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015fen fikirlerini yakalarcas\u0131na not almaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs\u2019\u00fcn s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yazd\u0131 ilk ba\u015fa: \u201cKimi mutlulu\u011fu yukar\u0131da arar, kimisi de a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da. Halbuki mutluluk, insanla ayn\u0131 hizadad\u0131r.\u201d Mutlulu\u011fa dair o kadar \u00e7ok s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylenmi\u015f, \u00e7izilmi\u015fti ki; akl\u0131na gelenler ile bir yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. G\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs kafesinin inip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan, g\u00f6zlerini k\u0131s\u0131p tebess\u00fcm edi\u015finden anlayabiliyordunuz halini.<\/p>\n

Mutluluk, \u00f6yle bir duygu ki; ikizi mutsuzluk ile varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 benimseyebilirseniz hayata bir s\u0131f\u0131r \u00f6nce ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. Malumunuz her \u015fey z\u0131dd\u0131yla kaimdir. G\u00fcnd\u00fcz, gecenin ard\u0131ndan g\u00fczel; yaz, k\u0131\u015f\u0131n ard\u0131ndan. Mutluluk, her daim yan\u0131m\u0131zda; hep ayn\u0131 hizam\u0131zda. Kendi hik\u00e2yemizde, dokundu\u011fumuz hik\u00e2yelerde. \u0130yili\u011fini \u00e7o\u011faltt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, kanaatin en b\u00fcy\u00fck zenginlik oldu\u011funu fark etti\u011fimiz ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zda.<\/p>\n

Mutluluk, her daim yan\u0131m\u0131zda; hep ayn\u0131 hizam\u0131zda. Mutluluk, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sars\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 hik\u00e2yelerin hemen ard\u0131nda. Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6\u011fretilerde, heybelerimizin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. Olmak da de\u011fil olu\u015fun verdi\u011fi hazda. Mutluluk senin i\u00e7inde.<\/p>\n

Mutluluk, do\u011fada\u2026 Kardelenin sana saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fcmit de. Herkese inat hayat\u0131 yava\u015f yava\u015f ya\u015fay\u0131p demini ald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamanda. Mutluluk, yeti\u015fti\u011fi batakl\u0131ktan kendini temize \u00e7\u0131karan lotus \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011finde. Lotusu aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, lotus olu\u015funda\u2026<\/p>\n

Defteri usulca kapat\u0131p, kalemi \u00fczerine koydu ve \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131 son kez yudumlad\u0131. R\u0131zk\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131p yeniden g\u00f6\u011fe bakt\u0131, g\u00fcne\u015fi selamlad\u0131. Unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekti\u011fi a\u015fklar\u0131n\u0131, batakl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6md\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ne varsa \u00f6n\u00fcne koydu. \u015e\u00f6yle bir bakt\u0131, \u201c\u015eu \u00e2n\u0131n de\u011feri, sizlerle g\u00fczel; \u015fu anki benli\u011fim sizlerle, de\u011ferli\u201d dedi, ince bir tebess\u00fcm ile. Tozunu, \u00e7amurunu silkeleyip, uzun zamand\u0131r yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131ran cesaretine hayran kald\u0131. Art\u0131k affetmenin hafifli\u011fi ile kucakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Onlar can h\u0131ra\u015flar\u0131 de\u011fil onlar can simitleri olmu\u015ftu. Affetmek de \u015f\u00fckretmek de nasipti. Nasibini ald\u0131, masadaki g\u00fcne\u015fi kucaklayan fesle\u011feni sevdi. Kokusunun e\u015fli\u011fiyle, hesab\u0131 masaya b\u0131rak\u0131p kalkt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Gelen garsona, bir para bir de not yaz\u0131l\u0131 k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131; Eline alan garson, g\u00f6zlerini k\u0131s\u0131p okudu. K\u00e2\u011f\u0131tta ise \u201c\u0130\u00e7imdeki Lotus \u00c7i\u00e7e\u011fi<\/em>\u201d yaz\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

\u00dcmm\u00fchan Demirda\u011f<\/em>
\nPsikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cKimi mutlulu\u011fu yukar\u0131da arar, kimisi de a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da. Halbuki mutluluk, insanla ayn\u0131 hizadad\u0131r.\u201d -Konf\u00fc\u00e7y\u00fcs – Bir \u00e7ay – Hemen getiriyorum abi Kitab\u0131 bitirmenin hazz\u0131n\u0131 hep bu \u015fekilde kutlard\u0131. Eline bir \u00e7ay … Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":863,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[51,50,48,47],"class_list":["post-858","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-lotus-cicegi","tag-mutlu-bir-yasam","tag-mutluluk","tag-pozitif-psikoloji","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/858","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=858"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/858\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":871,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/858\/revisions\/871"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/863"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=858"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=858"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=858"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}