{"id":1100,"date":"2024-08-30T14:00:58","date_gmt":"2024-08-30T11:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/?p=1100"},"modified":"2024-09-27T07:45:48","modified_gmt":"2024-09-27T04:45:48","slug":"seyyahin-son-duragi-psikoloji-penceresinden-bir-bakis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/?p=1100","title":{"rendered":"Seyyah\u0131n Son Dura\u011f\u0131: Psikoloji Penceresinden Bir Bak\u0131\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Uzun bir seyahatin ard\u0131s\u0131ra zihnime ald\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 unutmamak ic\u0327in c\u0327aba sarfeden o kis\u0327iydim. Seyahat etmenin her yas\u0327ta ayr\u0131 bir gu\u0308zellig\u0306inin, bereketinin, c\u0327ok yo\u0308nlu\u0308lu\u0308g\u0306u\u0308nu\u0308n tad\u0131na varman\u0131n heyecan\u0131n\u0131 yas\u0327\u0131yordum. Nic\u0327in seyahat ediyorduk ki? Seyahat o\u0308ncesi ve sonras\u0131 ben\u2019in ne fark\u0131 olabilir? Ben seyyahl\u0131g\u0306a aday m\u0131yd\u0131m yoksa sadece bir turist miydim? Bu yolculug\u0306un son durag\u0306\u0131 neresiydi? Kafamdaki deli sorulara vereceg\u0306im cevaplar\u0131 araban\u0131n penceresinden seyredalarken bolca cevaplamaya c\u0327al\u0131s\u0327\u0131yordum. U\u0308niversite y\u0131llar\u0131nda o\u0308g\u0306retmenimin bir so\u0308zu\u0308 dog\u0306an\u0131n bendeki yerinin en gu\u0308zel o\u0308rneg\u0306iydi. O\u0308g\u0306retmenim s\u0327o\u0308yle demis\u0327ti; I\u0307nsanog\u0306lu elindeki telefona, tablete vs bak\u0131p ne kadar hu\u0308kmedebileceg\u0306ini go\u0308ru\u0308p bu\u0308yu\u0308klenir. Fakat insan\u0131n yeri dog\u0306adad\u0131r. Dag\u0306lara, c\u0327ag\u0306\u0131ldayan sulara, dalgalar\u0131n s\u0131rt\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131p ne kadar ku\u0308c\u0327u\u0308k oldug\u0306unu go\u0308rebilmelidir. Bence bu so\u0308z kis\u0327inin nerede durmas\u0131n\u0131 gerektig\u0306ini hat\u0131rlatmaz m\u0131? Yes\u0327ile ve mavig\u0306e olan yolculug\u0306umu \u201chad(s\u0131n\u0131r) bilmek\u201d deyimiyle o\u0308zdes\u0327les\u0327tirmenin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bu so\u0308zle aralad\u0131m. Bana bu\u0308yu\u0308k adam olman\u0131n nerede ku\u0308c\u0327u\u0308k oldug\u0306unu bilmekten gec\u0327tig\u0306ini o\u0308g\u0306retti. Nerede a\u0302ciz oldug\u0306umu, nerede ehil olabileceg\u0306imi farkettiren bir bak\u0131s\u0327 ac\u0327\u0131s\u0131 kazand\u0131rd\u0131. Seyahate de hep bu go\u0308zle bakar\u0131m. Hani Mevla\u0302na\u2019n\u0131n bir so\u0308zu\u0308 vard\u0131r ya \u201cKendinden kendine sefer eyle\u201d I\u0307s\u0327te tam da budur seyahatin kars\u0327\u0131l\u0131g\u0306\u0131.<\/p>\n

Kes\u0327fetme arzusunun d\u0131s\u0327a vurumudur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seyahat etmek, yeni bir s\u0327eyler o\u0308g\u0306renmeye, go\u0308rmeye, duymaya ta\u0302lip olmakt\u0131r. Bu durum beynimizi daha aktif hale getirdig\u0306i gibi alg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da daha ac\u0327\u0131k konumda tutar. Seyahat s\u0131ras\u0131nda yas\u0327ad\u0131g\u0306\u0131m\u0131z duygu durumunun genel anlamda bizleri nes\u0327eli ve mutlu oldug\u0306unu du\u0308s\u0327u\u0308nu\u0308rsek; kes\u0327fetme arzusunun, seratonin ve dopamin hormonlar\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131rd\u0131g\u0306\u0131n\u0131 rahatl\u0131kla so\u0308yleyebiliriz.<\/p>\n

Her yas\u0327ta kis\u0327iye farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131s\u0327 ac\u0327\u0131s\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 kitab\u0131 birkac\u0327 kez okursan\u0131z farkl\u0131 yerlerin alt\u0131n\u0131 c\u0327izersiniz. C\u0327u\u0308nku\u0308 her yas\u0327ta ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z, o\u0308nem verdig\u0306iniz unsurlar deg\u0306is\u0327kenlik go\u0308sterir. Seyahat de bo\u0308yledir; ayn\u0131 yerlere yolculuk da\u0302hi yapsan\u0131z bambas\u0327ka du\u0308nyalar\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 t\u0131klat\u0131rken bulursunuz kendinizi. Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kendinize dog\u0306ru daha derin bir yolculug\u0306un ilk durag\u0306\u0131 olacakt\u0131r. Kus\u0327 bilimcisi Philippe J. Dubois\u2019 un dedig\u0306i gibi \u201cKendini ac\u0327\u0131g\u0306a vurman\u0131n en iyi yoludur, seyahat.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bu\u0308yu\u0308k adam olman\u0131n pu\u0308f noktas\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seyahat; kis\u0327inin u\u0308stu\u0308nlu\u0308klerine ve acziyetine dair yeni bir bak\u0131s\u0327 ac\u0327\u0131s\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Kis\u0327iye bu bak\u0131s\u0327 ac\u0327\u0131s\u0131 neleri deg\u0306is\u0327tirme\/rememe noktas\u0131nda gu\u0308cu\u0308nu\u0308 farkettiren en o\u0308nemli unsurdur. Olaylara ve olgulara vereceg\u0306i tepkileri du\u0308zenleyen bu durus\u0327, kis\u0327iyi a\u0302deta o\u0308zu\u0308ne kars\u0327\u0131 tefekku\u0308re sevk eder.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Dog\u0306an\u0131n en iyi o\u0308g\u0306retmeniniz oldug\u0306unu farkettirir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dog\u0306ayla ic\u0327ic\u0327e oldug\u0306unuzda birc\u0327ok o\u0308g\u0306reti ile kendinizi bas\u0327bas\u0327a bulabilirsiniz. Dog\u0306ada var olan muhtes\u0327em akis ile kendinize dog\u0306ru yolculug\u0306a c\u0327\u0131kabilir, kendinize dair farkl\u0131 nu\u0308anslar\u0131 yakalayabilirsiniz. Yeteneklerinizi, sevdiklerinizi, u\u0308zu\u0308ldu\u0308klerinizi, deg\u0306er verdiklerinizi, gayelerinizi yeniden go\u0308zden gec\u0327irebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Son olarak diyebilirim ki; seyahat siz isterseniz, en iyi o\u0308g\u0306retileri kucag\u0306\u0131n\u0131za b\u0131rak\u0131r. Siz isterseniz, yeni bir rengin de varl\u0131g\u0306\u0131ndan haberdar eder. Siz isterseniz, yepyeni bir \u201cBen\u2019i\u201d sizlerle bulus\u0327turur.<\/p>\n

Kendi ufkunuza dog\u0306ru seyyah olmaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Uzun bir seyahatin ard\u0131s\u0131ra zihnime ald\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 unutmamak ic\u0327in c\u0327aba sarfeden o kis\u0327iydim. Seyahat etmenin her yas\u0327ta ayr\u0131 bir gu\u0308zellig\u0306inin, bereketinin, c\u0327ok yo\u0308nlu\u0308lu\u0308g\u0306u\u0308nu\u0308n tad\u0131na varman\u0131n heyecan\u0131n\u0131 yas\u0327\u0131yordum. Nic\u0327in seyahat ediyorduk ki? … Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":1113,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35,3,4,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guncel","category-pozitifpsikoloji","category-ruhsagligi","category-arts-culture","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1100","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1100"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1100\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1105,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1100\/revisions\/1105"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}