{"id":110,"date":"2019-04-11T08:51:05","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T08:51:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demo.themespiral.com\/freenews\/?p=110"},"modified":"2024-05-15T19:37:05","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T19:37:05","slug":"arkadasliklarimiz-neden-biter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mutlulukatolyesi.org\/?p=110","title":{"rendered":"Arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z neden biter?"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p>Arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nemli yer edinir fakat arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n sona ermesi ki\u015finin can\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131tan karma\u015f\u0131k bir olgudur. Arkada\u015fl\u0131klar kurmak ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek uzun zaman alan ve emek isteyen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Peki neden arkada\u015fl\u0131klar biter? Daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 merak ettiniz mi? D\u00f6rt \u00f6nemli nedenin arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerinin bitmesinde \u00f6nemli rol oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bulunmu\u015f.<\/p>\r\n<p>Arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerinin bitmesinin en \u00f6nemli nedenlerinden biri ki\u015filerin sadece kendisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi yani bencil davran\u0131\u015flar g\u00f6stermesi. Bencillik ili\u015fkilerde ki\u015finin sadece kendisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine neden olur ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 etkile\u015fimi zay\u0131flat\u0131r. Bu g\u00fcven duygusunu zedeler. Ayr\u0131ca bencillik destekleyici olmayan, manip\u00fclatif ve kaba bir ili\u015fki tarz\u0131n\u0131 da beraberinde getirir. Ufak bir not, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bencilliklerinden dolay\u0131 arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bitirme olas\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 erkeklere g\u00f6re daha y\u00fcksektir.<\/p>\r\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerin bitmesine neden olan di\u011fer bir fakt\u00f6r ise arkada\u015flar aras\u0131ndaki etkile\u015fimin azalmas\u0131. San\u0131r\u0131m \u201cG\u00f6zden \u0131rak olan g\u00f6n\u00fclden de \u0131rak olur\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc bu durumu en iyi \u015fekilde yans\u0131tmakta. Etkile\u015fimin azalmas\u0131 ve ileti\u015fimin kopmaya ba\u015flamas\u0131 arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n bitmesin de \u00f6nemli yer edinmekte. Ayr\u0131ca ki\u015filerin \u00f6ncelikleri farkl\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. \u0130lgin\u00e7 olan ise erkeklerin bu nedenle arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bitirme olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kad\u0131nlardan daha y\u00fcksek olmas\u0131.<\/p>\r\n<p>Arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkisinin bitmesinde etkili olan di\u011fer bir neden ise arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkisinin zamanla yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilere d\u00f6nmesi. Burada, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n kendileriyle veya yak\u0131n ili\u015fki ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fi ile romantik bir \u015fekilde ilgilendi\u011fini alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bitirme olas\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 daha y\u00fcksek.<\/p>\r\n<p>Son olarak ailenin ki\u015finin arkada\u015flar\u0131na ili\u015fkin alg\u0131s\u0131 veya onaylay\u0131p onaylamamas\u0131 bitirme nedenleri i\u00e7erisinde yer al\u0131yor. Arkada\u015flar ve aile di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131 onaylamazsa ili\u015fkinin bitmesi olas\u0131. Bu sadece aile ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 de\u011fil e\u011fer e\u015finiz taraf\u0131ndan arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z onaylanm\u0131yorsa veya onlara kar\u015f\u0131 alg\u0131s\u0131 olumsuz ise genellikle o ili\u015fki bitiyor. Yeti\u015fkinler ili\u015fkilerini daha sa\u011flam temellere dayand\u0131rmakta ve genellikle ili\u015fkilerinde bir sorun oldu\u011funda arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerini daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde sonland\u0131rmaktalar.<\/p>\r\n<p>Bunlardan herhangi biri size tan\u0131d\u0131k geliyor mu? Sizin eklemek istedikleriniz var m\u0131?<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Bir sonraki yaz\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek \u00fczere, mutlu ve anlaml\u0131 bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrmeniz dile\u011fiyle. <em><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a class=\"post_meta_item post_author\" style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gokmenarslan.com.tr\/author\/admin\/\" rel=\"author\"><span class=\"post_author_name\">G\u00f6kmen Arslan &#8211;<\/span><\/a><span class=\"post_meta_item post_date\">23 Aral\u0131k 2022<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>\u00d6nerilen Kaynaklar<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Apostolou,M., &amp; Keramari, D.(2021). Why friendships end: An evolutionary examination. Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences. Advance publication. http:\/\/dx.doi.org\/10.1037\/ebs0000269<\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nemli yer edinir fakat arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n sona ermesi ki\u015finin can\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131tan karma\u015f\u0131k bir olgudur. Arkada\u015fl\u0131klar kurmak ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek uzun zaman alan ve emek isteyen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. 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